DIVORCE
Divorce rate has
reached its peaks on the century we live and this is a real threat for healthy
generations. Half of the Turkey’s children are witnessing the break-up of their
parent's marriage and close to half of these children also see the break-up of
their parent's second marriage nowadays. Divorce is a horrible fact and it is
really hard on anyone who is involved. The stress of modern living makes a long
list of causes for a divorce and the effects from a divorce are never ending.
Firstly, the most common cause for divorces is bad
communication. Bad communication is taking the lead of these causes, for every
people has his or her own unique characteristic features. In other words, in
time, people get to know each other perfectly and discover other’s some
features that are weird for him or her. Consequently, couples start to bear
each other some grudge which results in some serious outcomes. Couples are
dating for a short period of time and decide to marry. As a result of these,
they do not know well each other.
As a second cause, there comes cheating on each other.
People who are married for a long time start to cheat on their partner. As a
primary reason for this, it can be said that they need more regular sexual
life. Couples cannot satisfy each other sexually and this results in cheating.
As a secondary reason for this, it can be said that couples are not satisfied
emotionally and mentally which leads pairs to outer world to find some other
loves. To conclude, satisfaction has a crucial role on relationships,
especially serious relationships. If one of the couple is not satisfied well,
he or she would be attracted by the outer world’s beauty.
In addition to these causes, there are lots of effects
some which are deeply affect couples and their children and some of which has
not very crucial consequences.
To start with, divorces have a really deep impact on the
children. Children of the divorced parents can be mentally ill or disobedient
due to the stress and the sorrow he or she feels during the hard times of the
divorce. As predicted, children who had the divorce trauma become less obedient
and aggressive in their future social life. Correspondingly, an only divorce
can affect the whole society by the mediation of a disobedient and aggressive
child.
Secondly, one of the most serious effects of the divorce
is death rate increases. Couples who are divorced eat their heart out and start
thinking of attempting suicide or killing his or her partner. As a result of
this, they ruin not only their own life, but also their relatives’ and
children’s lives. This situation is very common in Turkey nowadays and people
should be informed about the seriousness of the divorce.
To sum up, divorce is not a fair decision for both
partners and the people around them. Couples who have some mal-communication
should consult a psychiatrist or an expert. There are
lots of ways to solve problems between people and the divorce is not a way to
get rid of the responsibility of a family.
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